What comes to your mind when you hear the word curious?
I picture a cheerful and happy little child who tirelessly explores their surroundings. Curiosity and positivity often go hand in hand. It’s hard to imagine someone being deeply curious yet unhappy.
While some of us are naturally more curious than others, curiosity isn’t just something determined by genetics. It can be nurtured, strengthened, and invited. Curiosity sparks more curiosity. It lays the foundation for new experiences, insights, and perspectives in life.
Curiosity Also Strengthens Relationships
Curiosity is a quality that benefits relationships, too.
Curious people are often seen as interesting — but more importantly, they make others feel interesting. When someone is genuinely interested in your thoughts, experiences, and stories, it boosts your sense of being valued. Someone else’s curiosity about your inner world feels deeply good.
It’s important to note that this kind of curiosity isn’t nosiness or an invasion of privacy — it’s a respectful interest in another person.
If you want to increase closeness and well-being in your relationships, you can reflect on:
When was the last time I showed curiosity toward my loved one’s thoughts? When did I last ask what they really think about something that matters to them?
Awaken Curiosity – Be Interested in Others
Here’s a small exercise you can do with a partner or close friend. Find a peaceful moment — maybe on a weekend evening over a good meal or in a cozy café. Take turns asking the questions below, and really listen to the answers without rushing or commenting.
Conversation questions:
- What was most important to you as a child?
- Who did you admire, and why?
- What was your favorite game or activity as a child?
- What were you most afraid of back then? And now?
- What brought you the most joy in childhood?
- What brings you the most joy right now?
- If you could spend one year living exactly as you wished, what would you do — and why?
Curiosity is the desire to be genuinely present. It’s one of the most effective ways to strengthen connection with another person.
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